Funny how that happens...
i think i am in a meloncholoy mood this evening. i am listening to patty griffen. i joined eharmony and no matches yet. i know, most people are thinking that it is time to suck it up, face singlehood and deal with it, maybe even try to enjoy it. but i do have a longing that seems to stay constantly in the middle of my stomach; kind of like sorrow, disappointment. i can't say that i haven't thought about dealing with being single. i know that it can't really be all that bad and sometimes i am afraid that it is just the romantic in me that can't let this longing go. maybe if i let it go then i would find that i don't want a relationship. maybe.
posted by notreallycreative at 8:57 PM
2 Comments:
It's okay to not want a relationship. It doesn't mean you're going to be single forever. It also doesn't mean there's something missing in your life. You worry too much. Give the e-harmony thing a few months, and see how it turns out. I joined that site, and matches slowly accumulated over the course of a year. Just be patient.
Don't worry it starts out slow, but there are some real gems on e-harmony. I met my boyfriend of almost five months on there. It can be really fun to meet all kinds of people, but be careful I have encountered a few weirdos. I used it for about a year and a half, it is really hard to meet people and i totally understand your desire to have a relationship. It is really hard when all of your close friends are married.
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